I feel bad for Palestinians at the same time as I wish both the Hebrew identity and Palestinian one survives how possible is it that this whole bloodshed shall end soon and we can all live in peace ?

The Hebrew identity was and is still an essential of our Palestinian heritage. For us, anyone who denies the Hebrew identity is not a friend or an ally. They are not mutually exclusive, it is the complete opposite. After all, there is indeed Jewish history in Palestine. This history forms a part of the Palestinian past and heritage, just like every other group, kingdom or empire that settled there does. We must stop viewing Palestinian and Jewish histories as competing, mutually exclusive entities, because for most of history they have not been.
These positions can be maintained while simultaneously rejecting Zionism and its colonialism. After all, this ideologically driven impulse to imagine our ancestors as some closed, well defined, unchanging homogenous group having exclusive ownership over lands corresponding to modern day borders has nothing to do with the actual history of the area, and everything to do with modern notions of ethnic nationalism and colonialism.
Shalom ☮️